I feel like a new person and it’s all thanks to a person who has been helping me change myself. Hmmm part of me feels like Alanis Morissette (her transition from “jagged little pill” to “Formerly infatuated information junkie”).It is always good to be positive as one can achieve a lot in his life. There have been times when i have been very bitter, sardonic (or sarcastic), cynical and that has not been good for me. Heck why should i hide the fact that it was my friend Mo who has been a good role model for me. He has taken a lot of time from his life to help me a lot of stuff. There is a lot of stuff i have to work on but at least i know what lies ahead for me. I know it may sound cliched but it is the truth. Resenting everything and living in the past is not such a great idea. It doesn’t help a person move on. It is not healthy for a person to have resentment or obsess over non-trivial issues. I just realized that a lot of time is wasted when a person keeps bringing up the past. It wont resolve anything and one looses precious time which he could have used to do something practical. Mo has taught me a lot and i am quite grateful to him. He was right when he said that one shouldn’t make excuses for anything. Excuses in my theory are more like barriers we put up so that we can shift the blame onto others. We can easily get around these barriers if we are determined to do something. External factors such as people may get you down but then you are not living life for them. You are living life for yourself. Now i feel that i should look at the positive side of everything. I did not get the job i applied for but that doesn’t mean I lost all hope. Heck i got some positive feedback from those people and that makes me feel good. Ego is a factor which can stop a person from doing a lot. Hence i have to sacrifice all that and put a positive spin to it. I feel that if something doesnt go right one can always look at it in a positive way. That’s how life should be like. Take it one step at a time. Mo was right when he said live in the Now. That is how everything should be like. I am positive because i am spiritually attuned and praying everyday MashAllah se. Allah loves those people who pray to Him regularly. Those people who loved them selves and think positively have a lot to look forward to. I hope this positivity buzz never wears out. I feel so motivated and so charged that i feel like going on doing a ton of good positive stuff out there. I know there will be times when i will feel down but then i shall remind myself of all the good things out there in the world and remember what Mo told me.
That’s one reason why I want to be positive. Things may be shitty at times but I will bounce back. This goes out for the rest of you all as well. Good times and bad times go together. Just try and look at everything in a positive way and you shall feel good or simply stick with people who wont bring you down. Loyalty is an important factor here and that is what will make u go on.
